Please only bring a guest if they’re listed on your invitation. Thank you for understanding!

Please refer to the Travel & Accommodation page.

As much as we love kids, this will be a child-free weekend!

We will not be providing transportation. We highly recommend using either Uber or Lyft to get to our wedding.

We will not have reserved parking spots or valet. With that being said, Red Hook is an industrial area and you can typically find street parking on the weekend. If you plan on driving, please park as available and look at the parking signs.

Black tie optional and dress to impress!

We would love for you to dress up for our wedding celebration, so please refrain from wearing shorts / t-shirts / jeans.

If you’re a member of the Butcher Family, please arrive at 5:00PM.

If you’re a member of the Martin Family, please arrive at 5:30PM.

If you typically are late to an event, please see instructions for the BUTCHER family. If you are typically early to an event, please see instructions for the MARTIN family.

Everyone else? Our ceremony will start at 5:30PM sharp, so please allow enough time to get to the venue and take a seat (so let’s say between 5:00pm - 5:15pm arrival?).

Both!

Our ceremony + cocktail hour will be outdoors (weather permitting), but our reception / dancing will be indoors. Please dress accordingly!

The short answer is: NO!

Long answer…

We have put in a lot of time and care into making this website as a resource for our guests for our wedding. We want to make sure this special weekend is filled with quality time with all of you and creating stress-free memories, so we politely ask that you use your resources before contacting us.

Please continually check the website for updates!

Our very talented friend, Gerald Wicks! Not only is he a graphic designer, but he’s ALSO an incredible singer - check out his Spotify HERE 😇

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